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But does it seem like your marriage is falling apart in front of your eyes? You don’t know what to do?

It can feel like the end of the world when a spouse says “I don’t love you anymore” or “I’m leaving.”

You’ve probably found that the announcement impacts every aspect of your life, and now you may be wondering if you can keep your balance.

If you’re like most people in your situation, you’re probably feeling scared and confused, not knowing what to do next. And the truth is you’re not alone. You’ve got plenty of company of others like you who don’t know what to do.

For many years I’ve counseled so many spouses like you who’ve been in a similar predicament. I’ve learned a lot from clients just like you about what works and what doesn’t work in trying to keep a marriage together.

Besides my 25 years as a counselor, I think my personal experience also gives me credibility. Through the years, I’ve learned the hard way that "happily-ever-after" endings don’t just happen and that I can’t pin the blame for all marriage problems on my partner.

The truth is, my husband Lee and I sometimes do have disagreements that make us butt heads. But we’ve discovered that the quality of a marriage doesn’t depend on avoiding disagreement.

Instead the excellent quality of our marriage depends on being able to disagree without inflicting permanent damage to the relationship. And it depends on how we recover from conflict between us.

The good news for you is that it’s never too late to change and to decide to do a “makeover” project on yourself. As you change yourself, the ripple effect of the changes will be felt in your marriage and in every area of your life.

But you have to take the first step before anything different can happen. I want you to have what Lee and I have found to be attainable—a marriage of mutual respect, laughter, love and passion. A soul connection.

You probably weren’t taught positive marriage-building skills in school. If you’re like most people, you’re having to learn on your own.

There are two main ways people usually learn: by trial and error or by finding out what people who are successful do.

You don’t have time to waste on trial and error attempts to discover what will save your marriage. You need to know what precise steps to take right now to reduce the chances that your spouse will bolt out of the marriage.

“I wanted to let you know that my husband has decided to come home and go to marriage counseling. I can’t thank you enough for your book—without it I don’t know where we would have been. Thank you so much.”

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I am here to tell you that it can change. In fact, I am here to tell you that your marriage can not only be restored, but can actually become the marriage of your dreams! You really are married to your soul-mate!

Let’s Take A Quick Quiz About Your Marriage Answer the questions below to see where things are right now.

If you checked any "Yes" responses to the above questions, it is time to really look at what is going on in your relationship.

It’s just too easy to do nothing. And then another day, week, month, then year passes with only worsening issues. Or a letter from an attorney arrives!

Let’s face it: we live in a culture that constantly calls us away from our marriage. In fact, we live in a society that not only approves of divorce, it makes it easy to get.

But together, you and I can work to change that, saving one marriage at a time, starting with yours! Actually, it will be you, me, and God making that change possible.

Did you know that the rate of divorce among Christians is actually HIGHER than the general population? I can’t begin to tell you how surprised I was to hear this! We are a people called to be faithful, to be forgiving, to be loving. . . and we end marriages more often than the general public. That trend must stop! Let’s agree to change this fact, you and I working together to renew your marriage.

Divorce and broken marriages is not God’s plan. God’s plan was for marriage to be a lifetime. As I’m sure you have heard often, in Genesis 2:24, God tells us that "for this reason, a man will leave his father and mother and be united with his wife. And the two people will become one body." When we become one body, it is a forever thing.

Where is your relationship? Is it where you want it to be? Is it where your spouse wants it to be? Is it where God wants it to be?

OK, I have my prejudices. Obviously, 1) isn’t working. You have already decided against that, the proof being that you found your way to this website! And 2) isn’t much of an option for those of us who believe God’s Word. So, the best answer is 3), accomplished of course, with God’s help.

If you are like most people, you have tried to make changes, tried to figure things out, and maybe even saw… Read more…

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This is very likely one of the most painful things you will ever have to endure. I know, because my husband of 29 years cheated on me.

It was devastating and it felt like my heart was being cut out of my chest. Maybe you’ve had those same feelings. At times I felt like I was losing my mind because I was filled with such anger. I remember wanting to hit him with my full fury and the closest thing was the fireplace tools. I scared myself so I ran into my closet and busted the iron into several pieces instead.

I felt rejected and couldn’t eat. I got bone skinny and feared I would make myself really sick. I tried everything I could think of to make things right, but in the end, I couldn’t take it any more.

I didn’t have a resource like this. I read lots of books but none of them were about how to save my marriage. With a heavy heart I filed for divorce.

Your answer could be a fast and furious "No!" But the fact that you have searched and found my website tells me there’s a little bit of hope that maybe you can fix this horrible pain in your heart.

Hi, I’m Kara Oh and welcome. For this conversation, I’m going to assume you’re thinking that maybe, just maybe, you can save your marriage.

But before we go any further, I want you to understand something about why I’ve written this book. I don’t want you to just stay together.

How long has it been since you had fun together? Laughed over silly little things, played and joked with each other? Do you miss that?

You’re not alone. Most couples lives get so busy with work, the to-do list, kids, money worries, and household chores that they slowly drift apart, unaware that it’s happening, until it’s too late.

You’ve probably heard that if you put a frog in a pot of hot water, it will jump out immediately. But if you put a frog in a pot of cold water and turn on the heat, he will slowly become frog soup, unaware of what was happening to him.

Couples drift apart in the same way, little-by-little, one day at a time, until finally, years down the line, you’ve lost touch with all the reasons you fell in love.

Hi Kara, I just recommended your books "Affair Repair" and "Men Made Easy" to some women in my affair support group. I have not found anything that compares to the information received in these 2 books as easy to read and follow anywhere else. So I couldn’t help but share what has helped me move past the hurt and start to create the marriage of my dreams. Thank you.

Dear Kara, I listened to your entire "Affair Repair" audio book last night. I was… Read more…

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? Learn the secrets to stopping your divorce from the top marriage counselors in the world. You’ll explore exact steps in saving your relationship and stopping the divorce. We will hold your hands and show you what you need to do in order to save your marriage. As marriage counselors with 30+ years of experience, we have found the most effective techniques that have been proven to save marriages. Results can be seen immediately.

If you’re serious about stopping your divorce, We urge you to relax, grab a drink and indulge everything we are about to teach you. We’ll cover every aspect of stopping your divorce and saving your marriage, so at each step you will know exactly where you are, where you’ve been and what there is for you to do next. Our methods are simple, effective and workable by anybody in any situation.

So you tried everything from marriage counseling to what your friends told you, and you may be a little hesitant in trying out other methods in saving your marriage? With the divorce rate at record highs, more than ever people are seeking marriage counseling, but it is expensive and you usually end up paying for the service even if it doesn’t work. Most of all, it requires the attendance of your partner who will most likely refuse. Most couples who enter marriage counseling already have one foot out the door already. I am Katie Zaltman and I am the head author of the book. Personally, I’ve been a marriage counselor and relationship therapist for over thirty years. During this time, I have met with over ten thousand couples and assisted them in saving their marriage. As a result, I have decided to share what I have learned with you. As a member of a team of four marriage counselors and relationship gurus, we have in total saved tens and thousands of marriages with more than a 90% success rate. We have seen the divorce methods that have worked and that have not. We use our background and our years of experience to ensure that the methods we described to you in this book are valuable and what you will find will be quite surprising.

It has been our lifelong career to stop divorces & save marriages. Our team of four marriage counselors and relationship experts have each been in the industry for more than twenty years. We have saved more marriages than any other team of relationship counselors. Let us show you what works and what doesn’t work

Imagine having your friends and family being impressed at how quickly both of you managed to reconcile your differences.

The majority of husbands and wives we’ve seen haven’t had any luck using common "marriage saving techniques" in solving their marriage problems. We will start with a couple who was a client of our practice two years ago. The couple married in their freshmen year… Read more…

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Those who witnessed it were shocked and amazed. Those who heard about it were relieved. Even Kathy’s daughter Emma, hidden in the corner of the room, saw it and wrestled back her tears of joy.

As Ray sat alienated in the back, he felt a hand slip softly into his. Looking down, he recognized the fingers he’d known for years laced lovingly through his hand. He glanced up slowly to see Kathy’s reassuring face as she gave him a smile.

No longer was Ray cold and defensive, backed into his corner of isolation. No longer was Kathy feeling emotionally shipwrecked, paralyzed with humiliating images of Ray in the arms of the other woman.

After only a few weeks, something major was starting to change. Suddenly, talking about the details didn’t feel like taking a walk in a minefield. Kathy’s emotions were finally starting to be under her control and no longer holding her hostage.

Ray began to open up and communicate with sincerity and humility. He gently allowed her to express the trauma she experienced without arguing or throwing it back in her face (more on Ray and Kathy’s story in a second).

At this point, I realized that the consistent methods I have been using for 31 years would work for almost any couple(if at least one of them is willing to start before it is too late).

Not only have I seen it, but I’ve helped people take control by equipping them with a 3-phase system that can restore their relationship with more honesty, safety, and intimacy than before the affair (even if their spouse isn’t yet willing).

My name is Dr. Frank Gunzburg. For 15 of my 59 years, I have lived in Baltimore, Maryland with my wife Sandy, our five children, and our six grandchildren. For the most part, I’d say it’s been a quiet life, except for one thing.

Over the last 31 years, I’ve fought in the trenches alongside couples who are desperate to save their marriages after affairs. Some come to me hopeful, some come cold and battle-hardened, and others come alone, uncertain, and praying that I can breath life back into their near-dead relationship.

After three decades of specializing in marriage counseling, I’ve seen many people give up. I’ve seen many relationships where the couples put off healing too long and eventually cause irreparable damage.

More importantly, I’ve seen the majority of my couples overcome what they imagined to be unbeatable odds by restoring their relationship and making it better than before the affair.

Sound hard to believe? Perhaps, but all I ask is that you refrain from disbelieving until I show you proof.

Imagine this… what if I told you that the magic bullet for rebuilding your relationship included one or more of the following ten actions:

You might say I’m right, or you might say you’ve tried these and many… Read more…

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What if there was a way to ever-so-gently bring back those feelings of love that you thought were gone forever?

Kara Oh The Heart Whisperer™ Relationship Expert Best Selling Author & National Speaker

I’m here to give you the tools you need so you can actually fix your marriage AND make it better than it has ever been.

If you still have hope, even a tiny bit, that there has to be a way to transform your marriage, I will show you how to breath new life into your sagging marriage.

In 30 days or less, as you incorporate my techniques into how you and your spouse interact with each other, you really can, once again, have a happy, successful, lifelong love affair…and it’s surprisingly easy to make my tried-and-true system work it’s magic.

For many years I’ve studied what makes a relationship not only last, but thrive and grow stronger.

I’ve written books, taught workshops and seminars on the subject and what I’ve discovered is you really can transform your relationship and awaken the love and passion you once felt, even if it’s been stale for a very long time.

It really is possible to transform your relationship into one that is filled with ever-deepening love, intimacy, playfulness, passion and hand-holding with your lover and best friend. You’re about to discover exercises and techniques that will show you how easy it will be to make that happen.

I’m Kara Oh and, if you’re like me and most everyone else, you got absolutely no training for one of the most important parts of life, your marriage. For the past 15 years I’ve been studying what makes men and women respond to each other they way they do.

Finally, I’m ready to introduce to you a system you and your partner can use that will utterly transform your marriage. And the best part is that it’s easy to do, even if you’re not feeling "in love" right now.

So much of what we do when we get married is learned from our parents, from hit-and-miss guessing, from what our partner brings with them, and a lot of avoidance of pain learned from past relationships.

Before you spend the money on expensive therapy you will want to try my techniques first. Marriage Makeover Manual gives you step-by-step ways to create a new level of intimacy and love and the bond between you will become stronger than it has been in years.

When you begin to put into practice the easy to follow steps you will find your intimacy deepening, your bond strengthening, and the fear of divorce fading away, being replaced with a sense of peace because you will know that you have put into motion something that can never be lost.

I’ve used the steps in Marriage Makeover Manual in my own relationship so I know… Read more…

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You see, just a few years ago, the love of my life left me. The emotions I was feeling then were probably similar to what you are feeling right now. Pain. Confusion. Sorrow. Disappointment. Even anger.

It felt like someone or something was constantly pulling on my heart, and the stress and anxiety was relentless.

And no matter how hard I tried not to, I couldn’t help replaying everything in my mind, trying to figure out a way to make it all right again.

Read on to discover how I resolved my problem and how you can get your ex back and be together again. You CAN be with your true love and have the relationship of your dreams.

The big problem is that people who suffer from a heart breaking breakup are receiving bad advice, including a lot of bogus myths, by all the so-called experts.

Wouldn’t you agree that it’s crazy to think you’ll get different results if you keep doing the same thing over and over again? If you keep touching a hot stove and kept getting burned – you’d be silly to think the next time you touch that hot stove you won’t get burned again right? That’s why you need to try something different.

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Unfortunately these books do not provide the answers to your biggest problem – how to get back together with your lost love. I just wanted to get my ex back! Some books were mystical or vague and didn’t seem to offer any concrete answers. Some books are so bogged down in heavy theory they didn’t answer my biggest questions. In fact, they didn’t answer the biggest question of all; How can I get back together with my true love? I just want to get my ex back!

None of them can tell you why your futile attempts at getting back together with your ex only seemed to make matters worse?

None of them can tell you how to stop the terrible feelings you have inside that are tearing you apart so that you can be happy again?

None of them can tell you how to relieve the heartache and loneliness and the persistent thoughts about your ex that are keeping you awake at night.

Luckily, I discovered a secret strategy used to bring back lost lovers. I’ve seen it in action for years without even realizing it.

But once I discovered how these amazing tactics work to get back your ex, I devoted myself to learning as much as I could about these amazing strategies. I began practicing these potent techniques every day using myself as my own guinea pig….

And that’s exactly what happened. My love and I solved our problems with ease, and getting back… Read more…

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I strongly believe your strategy will bring more happiness, harmony, and fulfillment to any relationship. I can relate to many experiences that you so clearly described in the book. I wish I found your book earlier in my relationship; I will definitely be a happier person today. – D.K.

Your eBook Saved My Marriage! "I just wanted to write you an email to express my gratitude. I initially came across your site back in January of this year when I was at a loss for words. I felt much despair as my husband had been unfaithful and had asked me for a divorce. …I was completely devastated. It affected my well being in all areas. I became a nervous wreck and it even cost me my job as I was not being productive. I did much soul searching and I am grateful that I found your site and purchased your "retrieve a lover ebook".

I read it and applied the concepts and within weeks, my husband left the other woman and asked that we work out our issues. I am happy to report that with much patience, persevereance and faith, we have put our marriage together and even started a family. I gave birth to a Baby Boy last month and we are better people individually and together as a couple. Thank you for your product! Ever grateful, – K.A.

Dear Friend, Are you into a very difficult relationship right now and are feeling that the whole world is crushing down on you? You feel broken hearted, but want to save your relationship and bring back your lover and/or spouse. Regardless of the distance between you, regardless of their hardened hearts, regardless of the barriers that keep you apart…. You can mend your broken heart and bring back your lover!

The feelings of humans are universal. What you feel inside yourself – all the hurt, pain, anger, jealousy, depression, disappointment, melancholy – when you are in a failing relationship, is exactly the same as that experienced by someone else who has been in your shoes and goes through what you have gone through right now. Years ago, the love of my life was involved in an extramarital affair, and he wanted a separation. So I had been ‘there’, gone through ‘it’, and lived through what I would call "a living hell". I was full of anguish and disbelief when it happened. I couldn’t believe my eyes and my ears. I must admit; I had been a good girlfriend to him for years; giving him the greatest care and love I could give. In fact, I almost gave him my everything!

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You’re on my website looking for answers.  That means you’re a GOOD HUSBAND, and a GOOD MAN, and you CARE about your marriage.

Then this is the most important letter you’ll ever read in your entire life! You want the truth, so I’m not going to sugar-coat it for you… DIVORCE is one of the WORST THINGS a guy can go through. There’s:

I wouldn’t wish divorce on my WORST ENEMY, and believe me…I don’t want it for you, either.

If you’re like most guys, you’re probably trying everything you can to save your marriage, and nothing seems to work!

Maybe you’ve even bought other products or books that claimed they could save your marriage…

Or maybe you’re just so confused by all the crazy information out there that you don’t even know where to begin.

“Dear Michael, I am a marriage and family therapist, and a very successful one. I want to make my wife love me again, and I don’t know how.   I know that talking only makes things worse. I know there must be something I can do that could help…but what is that?!”

I don’t want to hurt this guy’s business, so I’m concealing his face and identity.

Here’s a guy who MAKES HIS LIVING coaching people through their marriage problems, and his own marriage is in shambles!

I’m here to “blow the whistle” on all the hype and empty promises that marriage counselors and relationship “gurus” out there have been feeding you… And give you a real, step-by-step plan for SAVING YOUR MARRIAGE once and for all…

And not JUST “saving” it – but super-charging it with more love, passion, fun, and excitement than ever before – without you spending a DIME on marriage counseling or – God forbid – a divorce attorney!

“Just got done with your books!  I love it!  This is crazy that I never figured this out! Some fantastic insights into the human condition.  After reading the books, with my own marriage problems, it did not take long for me to get back to Alpha (status) as I used to be a very powerful guy. I cannot remember the last time I was able to have sex with  my wife but I did tonight.  She is in a very happy mood.  The power I feel is wonderful right now.   I woke up to wife making breakfast and more!”

EXACTLY…and that’s why marriage counseling just DOES NOT WORK! How are you supposed to work on your problems when your wife just doesn’t seem to care? What good is counseling and therapy with the attraction between you is dead and gone? Why even BOTHER saving a marriage unless the two of you are ABSOLUTELY CRAZY about each other?

See guys – it’s not about solving problems…it’s about BUILDING… Read more…

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In Part 1 of your free introduction program, you’ll discover the top six predictors of divorce, the top six predictors of a long-lasting marriage, the keys to a successful marriage (they are not what you might first think!) You’ll learn exactly all the risks and how to avoid them.

Here you’ll learn what to do if the love is gone, the 25 relationship killers and how to avoid letting them poison your relationship, and the double ‘D’s – discover what these are and how they can eat away at your marriage.

Discover the stress points in your marriage you need to watch out for, where the ultimate marriage killer occurs, and what to do next (Hint: It’s probably not what your first instinct is!).

Unlock the secrets to getting your partner to open up. Apply our groundbreaking strategies to get the communication flowing again. Read and learn about the do’s and don’ts of communication, the rules of arguing, and the silent poison that can destroy your marriage.

Understand how modern attitudes towards marriage wrok against commitment. If you take on board generational attitudes towards your marriage, you maybe sabotaging it right from the beginning! This segment also outlines the danger of being a workaholic, how your children can divide the marriage, and the very real danger the internet plays in your marriage.

Often you can feel it happening, but it’s such a gradual process you may not appreciate how bad it is until it’s at a critical level. Read and learn about incompatibility, and how to spot it before it splits you up. Also discover how to read your partner, a vital skill in navigating a successful marriage. Last but not least, uncover the danger zone of middle age and the mid-life crisis. Understand it and combat it before it strikes!

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