Question by Shella Glen: i cheated on my boyfriend and he “cheated back” should i break up with him?
i made a mistake and cheated on my boyfriend i told him and we worked through it. he told me this morning that he cheated on me a few months after the situation to get back at me. this all happened 2 years ago should i forgive him or end it

Best answer:

Answer by Greth
OK this is a difficult one. On paper it would seem that you two are evenly matched and it would be easy to just draw a line and say “it’s a draw. Next game: fidelity”, but it is never this easy.

I’m a firm believer in the adage “2 wrongs don’t make a right”, so I would say his reaction is quite immature. Although he has come clean eventually (you don’t mention how it came up in conversation though, I’d be interested to know…). However, I think if you were to be angry and end it you would be a bit of a hypocrite since he didn’t end it with you when you strayed.

Clearly he cares about you a lot since you two are still together, albeit for one immature dalliance.

It sounds like there is quite a bit going on under the surface of your relationship that is not all good. It’s time to have a deep-and-meaningful heart-to-heart with him, if not alone then with a relationship counsellor. You both now have common ground: you’ve both experienced the pain of being betrayed. Use this as a springboard to improve your relationship in all areas (if the relation ship is good and fulfilling, so will the sex be and then there will be no reason to cheat). Good luck.

Give your answer to this question below!

glee returns this fall on the fox network.

Question by Dylan: my mothers boyfriend took her laptop, she wants it back be he refueses to give it up, what can i do?
it’s kinda a long story but i’ll sum it up to be fairly short. over a month ago me and my mothers boyfriend got in a big fight because he was demanding that i do things for him and i stood up for myself, so he calls me a freak and blah blah blah. anyways he ends up taking my mothers laptop after i leave (because i use it) to get back at me and refuses to give it up now.

he did not buy it or anything and it is my mothers property. they recently got in a big fight because she demanded it back and he refused. i dont know what i can do, i want to call the police because he pretty much stole it but knowing my mom she wont want to do that.

she keeps saying she’ll get it back but it never happens. she even said to me “we’ll just buy a new one, i dont think we’re getting this back” her boyfriend is a male chauvinist and all together a rude guy. is there anything i can do about this or is it ultimatly up to my mom to do something?

Best answer:

Answer by no problem
I would call the cops

Add your own answer in the comments!

How to Get My Boyfriend Back Even When He Doesn't Want Me Back Again http://ow.ly/192Kan – by GraceParker88 (Grace Parker)

Question by BumbleBee: “Spreading Eagles” for starngers?
I’ve been getting my eyebrows waxed for years, and using lotion hair remover for my legs/bikini and shaving my under arms.

Now I want to wax it all, but my boyfriend is not to fond of a stranger “all up in” my bikini area (there’s no talking him into it). So I’ve decided to try home waxing. So, my questions:

A. Is waxing better than the lotion?
B. Hot or cold?
C. Cream or gel?
D.What brand?
E. Any tips on pain reduction and on how to remove the hair and keep my skin (lol)?

***Oh! and if no one can help me. I’m going to the spa ANYWAY and I’ll be back, asking for: “tips on how to get my boyfriend back”. LOL Thank you ladies.

Best answer:

Answer by m t
Go to the salon. Get it done. Tell your controlling boyfriend it was supposed to be done by a woman, but she called in sick so the twin male models had to “do you”.

Know better? Leave your own answer in the comments!