Keep the Love Alive – 5 Practical Ways to Improve a Relationship

Let’s say your relationship is not necessarily failing or getting worse. But the usual liveliness is gone and being too familiar with each if getting the best out of you. The same old fights, the same old schedule, the same old routine. You want to improve how things go and you know it’s time for a little self-examination and meditation. Here are five practical ways to improve a relationship to help you reflect and go over your current love life.

• Love yourself first. By this, I mean that you should have a life outside the relationship. If things go terribly wrong, chances are you blame it all to your partner — she’s late, she forgot to call, she went out with her friends late at night, she doesn’t want to have sex anymore… your list can go on and on. Take responsibility. If you love yourself and are self-assured, you will calmly deal over your little problems with system and coolness.

• Forget your standards. We all have standards and sometimes, when they aren’t met, we become totally disappointed. Take time to appreciate the positive side not only of your partner but of yourself. These are the things that made you two fall in love in the first place.

• Stop controlling. Are you starting to become a control-freak? Lie down before you hurt yourself. Smothering your partner will not help you improve the relationship. Let her do the things she like and give in to your own passions as well. Make room for the both of you to grow. By giving space, you keep your relationship exciting and not monotonous. Think about it.

• Time to get busy. The usual routine is getting boring and it’s now time to upgrade both your calendars. Think of an activity you both want to do but never get to do it and make a schedule for it this weekend. Better yet, surprise her. Nothing beats spontaneity to liven up the romance.

• Express your love often. Cook for her, hold her hand, give her a big hug — these things might have taken the back seat in your relationship but they’re actually the little stuff that keeps the passion alive. Compliment her at least once everyday and she will surely feel your affection. No need to go all sugary. Making her feel how important she is to you is enough.

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Can Socks Keep Love Alive?

I was in the kitchen this morning preparing my coffee and a commercial came on that has the most wonderful, uplifting music. So I just spontaneously started doing a little dance, but without lifting my feet. I had my socks on, as I usually do, so I could move about in a slippy, slidy way. I’ll have to admit, I was feeling pretty darned cute.

Since the job that the universe has assigned me is to “inspire people to do the work required to be happy,” I decided to say something on my Facebook update. It ended up being a happy-fest as many of my ‘friends’ added comments. I’d like to share our stream of thought with you in hopes that it will inspire you to do a little dancing in your socks.

My original post: Kara Oh wears socks in the house because it allows her to dance in the kitchen with a slippy, slidey, sexy creativity. Try it, you’ll like it.

And the comments that followed:

K: i do – when my kids aren’t watching
S: I love that!!!! It is awesome to dance, slip, slide and create a little time to play in your authentic self.
A: Oh Kara…I just danced my tush off with Jason Mraz….socks on and all…
Me: Oh, K., invite your kids to join you. They’ll love you for it and they won’t turn into uptight potato heads that are frustrated because they forgot how to play. I teach flirting but not just romantic flirting. Flirt with kids, old people, the dog, because it keeps us young and vital.
V: I TRIED THAT TOO!!! I can be a bit clumsy and went slip, sliding off to split open my lower lip..instant, plump lips for sure – haha, not sure how sexy though???
R: I actually do that as well!! with blasted music…LOL!
J: We must be kindred spirits!
K: sounds like fun. i still love walking in the rain. the kids & i go out and splash around in it from time to time
B: Risky Business
Me: I just love how you all have shared. Socks in the kitchen” is all about expressing our happiness through our body. And yahoo for our bodies ability to enjoy so many avenues of happiness…
R: tell ya what!… I’ll video tape myself doing the kitchen dance if you do it with me!!!LOL!
C: I thought everyone danced in their socks in their kitchen
R: preferably after it’s mopped! LOL

Well, as you can tell, we all got into the spirit of play. If you are married, in a relationship, dating or just thinking about dating, remember this: Do you know even one old couple who have been together forever but still in love who aren’t playful with each other?

The moment you quit being playful with each other, which is what flirting is all about, you might as well get the timer out to see how quickly the fires of love die out. Because they will.

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Save Your Relationship – Tips To Keep To Keep Love Alive And Avoid A Breakup

Falling in love and having a happy relationship can be the most wonderful experience in life. Everything is rosy and you greet each day with the happy expectation of being with the one you love. Unfortunately this state of bliss doesn’t last forever. You start to see the dark clouds of discontent gathering and you become panicked that your world of bliss is in chaos. That’s when you need some magic tips to save your relationship.  

If this is the condition that you find your relationship in, you need to have some secrets revealed that others have used and are using to heal their relationship problems and avoid relationship breakup. You need to act quickly but not irrationally. You need to stay calm and keep a clear head. You also need to seek help. Don’t try to save your relationship by yourself. You need good and experienced advice. There are alot of resources to help you with the attempt to save your relationship. These tips will offer you an excellent starting point:

1. Start by going over the recent problems that your relationship has been going through. Next, sort these problems out into two groups. You will have a group that are small things that you feel are not worth worrying about. The other group would be the ones that you consider more serious. Now, to isolate what you feel to be the biggie. The most serious problem of them all.

2. When two people are involved in a love relationship there is always an amount of give and take. Each partner is bound to do certain things and have certain little quirks that will irritate the other partner. The secret here is not to let them get out of hand. How do you do this? By communication. Without proper communication any relationship is bound to fail.

By discussing the relationship problems that you have thought were serious as well as the small ones with your partner, you can clear the air and go about rectifying these problems. You might even be surprised to find that your partner viewed the small problems as the most serious. Only communication can bring out the biggest problems and help you to save your relationship.

3. When discussing these problems, do it in a loving way. This is another magic tip to save your relationship that will lead to making it a more enduring relationship. Love must always be present. You both must always have the feeling that you would rather be with each other than anywhere else.

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