Thursday, September 30th, 2010 at
3:25 pm
Question by Starla: My husband had affair for 2yrs BUT, now wants to save marriage. Should I “demand” PROOF the affair is over?
Do you think this is the least he could do to reassure me he isn’t still with this woman that made my life hell? In fact, He didn’t actually say it was over he just said “he wanted us to save our marriage”
Are there any tough questions for me to ask him? Obviously, he will lie so should I contact “this woman” to see if he really ended it? Or will she just lie as well? How would I now for a fact and what is proof that it’s over between them?
I don’t want to waist anymore of my life.
I want to work it out for our kids but, my heart tells me I need to “Be Sure” He was with HER for 2 yrs of our marriage!
Best answer:
Answer by Danielle B
then don’t waste your life leave him and end it. you never know if he’ll do it again. once a cheater always a cheater.
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Sunday, September 26th, 2010 at
3:06 pm
Question by Shella Glen: i cheated on my boyfriend and he “cheated back” should i break up with him?
i made a mistake and cheated on my boyfriend i told him and we worked through it. he told me this morning that he cheated on me a few months after the situation to get back at me. this all happened 2 years ago should i forgive him or end it
Best answer:
Answer by Greth
OK this is a difficult one. On paper it would seem that you two are evenly matched and it would be easy to just draw a line and say “it’s a draw. Next game: fidelity”, but it is never this easy.
I’m a firm believer in the adage “2 wrongs don’t make a right”, so I would say his reaction is quite immature. Although he has come clean eventually (you don’t mention how it came up in conversation though, I’d be interested to know…). However, I think if you were to be angry and end it you would be a bit of a hypocrite since he didn’t end it with you when you strayed.
Clearly he cares about you a lot since you two are still together, albeit for one immature dalliance.
It sounds like there is quite a bit going on under the surface of your relationship that is not all good. It’s time to have a deep-and-meaningful heart-to-heart with him, if not alone then with a relationship counsellor. You both now have common ground: you’ve both experienced the pain of being betrayed. Use this as a springboard to improve your relationship in all areas (if the relation ship is good and fulfilling, so will the sex be and then there will be no reason to cheat). Good luck.
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